Moving to Buenos Aires with Teenagers - What type of social activities are there?

[Piranha]

For those of you who have relocated with teenagers, what kinds of social activities are available for them to connect with other American kids while they’re learning Spanish? I’m genuinely concerned about the potential culture shock, loneliness, or even depression my 17-year-old son might experience during the first few months—or even years—after the move. We’re thinking of making the move next summer, and I’d really appreciate any insights or advice.

Thank you!

 

[Esposas]

I'd let him finish high school at home, figure out what he wants to do next and make your own plans based on that. No social activity will replace a familiar setting

 

[French jurist]

Best thing for your 17 yr old is to learn as much Spanish as possible.

Learning these next 3 things will help all of you tremendously:
1. Subway network
2. Bus lines and routes
3. The 20 most popular attractions in BA.

At 17, he's old enough to find and develop his own social network of friends. Trust him to choose healthy relationships. His accent alone will be a 'new friend magnet'.

Why move to BA to be surrounded by other gringos?

 

[travelpro]

I moved here in September, and I’ll be honest—it hasn’t been easy. The culture is very social, which is quite different from what we were used to in the U.S. We settled in a small town about two hours from CABA, which has made things even more challenging.

Making friends has been especially hard for my daughter, who just turned 18. One thing I highly recommend is signing your son up for Spanish classes with others around his age—it can be a great way to ease the transition and start building connections.

For us, the biggest hurdle was the culture shock. As a result, my daughter has decided to return to the U.S. for university next year. It just hasn’t been an easy adjustment for her. What has helped is getting out together as a family—there’s so much to explore here, and that shared time makes a difference.

Also, try to find communities that align with your son’s interests. My daughter is really into gaming and anime, so she enjoys visiting Barrio Chino for the snacks and overall vibe—it gives her a little sense of comfort and familiarity.

As a mom, my biggest piece of advice is this: be kind to yourself. Don’t beat yourself up if your son struggles—it doesn’t mean you made the wrong decision. These experiences, even the tough ones, will shape him and help him grow in the long run.

Wishing you all the best on your upcoming adventure!

 

[ErosCer]

A bilingual school will be a very good approach. In BA there are several bilingual schools. He will make friends there and will socialize with them and others.

 

[JoeM]

My adviceis to give it time and don’t stress if it doesn’t click right away. Teenagers feel things deeply, but they’re also incredibly adaptable. Encourage him to take a class or join an activity he already enjoys. It’s the fastest way to find common ground.